What is Butterfly Woman?

What is Butterfly Woman?

The path of beauty, grace, delight, transformation and fertilization

By Maria Mar


Butterfly Woman mends the erroneous idea that transformation is only for the tortured, the saintly, or only for the fabulously strong. The Self need not carry mountains to transform. A little is enough. A little goes a long way. A little changes much. The fertilizing force replaces the moving of mountains.  Butterfly Maiden pollinates the souls of the earth: It is easier that you think, she says. She is shaking her feather fan, and she’s hopping, for she is spilling spiritual pollen all over the people who are there, Native Americans, little children, visitors, everyone. This is the translator of the instinctual, the fertilizing force, the mender, the rememberer of old ideas.” Clarissa Pinkola Estes, Women Who Run With The Wolves” 


“A Butterfly Woman!” the Goddess calls as she licks the sweet nectar of a rose. “I want a Butterfly Woman!”

This is Butterfly Woman calling. She is old and at the same time ageless. She has wings and at the same time is deeply grounded in the earth, closer to immanence than transcendence. Or perhaps she teaches us transcendence through immanence. She is the Sacred Feminine path of beauty, grace, delight and fertilization. She is the Mother of Transformation. She holds mirrors to our illusions to help us shed our old body and grow. She feeds on dreams to grow new realities. “Yes, that is me,” she says as I listen and transcribe her message. She is smiling. When she smiles, she births rainbows. When she dances, pollen rains over the imagination.

  • She is calling you to ride your transformation as the transportation to your Soul’s destination.
  • She is calling you to EMERGE from your cocoon of hiding, crawling and struggling into the light of your delight.
  • She needs you to share your gifts with the world now. Not tomorrow. NOW!

Now is the Time of Butterfly Woman.

So what is a Butterfly Woman?

A Butterfly Woman belongs to a new generation of women of all ages who are leading from the Sacred Feminine, doing what they love as a service to the world and creating Butterfly Waves that evolve humanity and heal this planet.

If you are becoming Butterfly Woman your Soul says:

  • I seek to free my true colors and unclip my wings to express my unique gifts in the world.
  • I want to make a BIG difference in the world, to help humanity awaken its brightest potential.
  • I love to feel the Goddess dance within me. I seek to embody my purpose and share my gifts.
  • I am a spiritual, creative woman. I want to create a Sacred Feminine wave of soulful transformation that helps humanity evolve into its brightest potential and helps heal our planet, and I want to do this through the expression of my unique gifts.
  • I am committed to this and place all my resources towards this transformation from Caterpillar Self to Butterfly Woman, including my time, attention, energy and money.
  • No excuses!  I will transform my Purpose into a service to the world.

So here is what can happen to YOU when you become Butterfly Woman


Your Transformation from Caterpillar Self to Butterfly Woman

  • Get crystal clear on your life purpose and embody it every day, starting now. Feel it in your body, your stance, your voice, your gifts, your value and your presence in the world. Own it as you go about your day serving others, communicating your message and living your truth. Stop pushing yourself to get there. BE there.
  • Stop confusing your Essence, your Sacred Self with the labels, limitations and judgments you carry! Let go of the learned judgments you carry about yourself and embrace how perfect for your purpose you are right now, just as you are! Dropping the Caterpillar is dropping the labels, limitations and judgments that cover your radiance so that the light of your Essence illuminates the world.
  • Stop struggling! Stop fighting where you are and seeing your current situation as a problem or obstacle. Shift your perception to catch the transformation in that situation and drive it as the transportation to your Soul’s destination.
  • Open your Wings! Go from Caterpillar Self, always struggling, working and trying but never flying…. and become your Butterfly Self,wearing your true radiant colors, expressing your genius, working in delight (Yummy, sucking all that sweet nectar. Shift from hunger to passion and watch your wings unfold.
  • Answer the deep calling of your Soul. Feel your Inner Wings unfolding as you stop longing to be that beauty, those gifts, that potential and start living it and freeing your radiance.
  • Channel your emotions creatively instead of staying trapped in your habitual fear-based soap operas! Perform the Emotional Alchemy that transmutes your fear-based emotions into love-based emotions so that you can instantly tame your Inner Bullies who steal your flight.
  • Detach from struggle and sacrifice in your perception of work, service and leadership. If success means to you more work, more sacrifice, more struggle, carrying the load of others, more caretaking, more in your to-do list… is it a wonder that you repel success? Butterfly Leadership is a new way of experiencing your power to influence the world. The Graceful Path to Success goes to the core of your life purpose and your connection to the people you came here to serve, allowing you to follow your bliss, connect to your Creation Partners and work smart instead of hard.
  • Redefine power to go with the organic grain of the Sacred Feminine in you. Most people believe that their success or dream is “out there” and they will only believe that they are successful if and when they achieve their goals, have money or are recognized by others; all external definitions. Learn the Sacred Feminine definition of power and move towards your goals from a place of abundance, fulfillment and deep satisfaction instead of insufficiency, hunger and frustration.
  • Spot the Caterpillar beliefs and tricks that sabotage your authority and release them. Tune into your creative genius, own your authority, let go of your old story of limitations, release the hidden beliefs and interferences that keep you feeling that you are too small to play big.
  • Learn shamanic tools and practices that shift your ineffective actions into powerful Alchemical Actions that get the job down with ease and grace. Stop sabotaging yourself, procrastinating, second-guessing, bullying yourself and being all over the place. Take effective actions, take flight and assume your highest potential. Do it now.
  • Discover the art and science of Embodied Purpose and design a system, brand or strategy to deliver your gifts, talents or message in a way that impacts the world, makes you happy and generates you money. 
  • Give yourself permission to do what makes you happy, deserve what you want, prioritize your purpose and step into your greatness. Stop complaining and start living your dream now.
  • Unleash the power of your presence. Stand in your Authority. Let that Goddess out of your Suitcase!  Feel your Goddess becoming real in your life now. 
  • Master Female Leadership, based on presence, uniqueness, delight, heart-wisdom and collaboration. Join the Butterfly Leadership and create Butterfly Waves that change the climate of the world in collaboration with other women who are living and working in delight.

Become Butterfly Woman and give yourself permission to be happy, fulfilled and successful on your own terms.


Resources to apply this knowledge

If this resonates with you, click here to find out more about the Butterfly Emergence Program. I will guide you to the unfolding of your Goddess stature and the physical alignment and integration of your authority, grace and gifts.


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Maria Mar is the creatress of the Bewomaning Experience and an author, storyteller and shaman who uses story as alchemy to help you transmute your old story of limitations to the new story of your brilliance illuminating the world. Like my stories? Enjoy a 30-day free trial in my Story Lovers club! Go now to reserve your seat.

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